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You Single?
Apr
9

You Single?

 
 

MEMBERS-ONLY

You must be a vetted member of The NSFW to attend this event. You can apply for membership at TheNSFW.Club. Once approved you can purchase passes and connect to members on private chats before the party.


SPONSORED BY ATTUNED

Attuned is a couples intimacy app—think Truth or Dare, but powered by your actual intimacy profile. You each take a survey based on real sexology research, and the app reveals where you align and suggests activities you'll both actually enjoy.

No generic questions—everything is personalized to who you actually are as a couple. Plus it's inclusive—works for any relationship structure, any orientation, any configuration."


SPICY DATING. SELECTIVE SINGLES.

A singles mixer for those who like things spicy. We’re welcoming selective singles who are looking for like minded new lovers and friends. Enter the Rosewood Theatre and be ready for the night by coming with curiosity and a desire to connect.

During this Adventure you’ll get to meet some members and mingle in a carefully curated collection of sexy singles. Dating events are usually popular, the guestlist normally hits above 40 members, so expect plenty of opportunities to make a first impression. This is not a play space, but make-outs and heavy petting are allowed. Lingerie and kink gear can be worn if it makes you feel sexy.

Here are some things to expect at You Single?

What you can expect:

  • Meet new and classic members for connections and play.

  • Speed dating ran by the NSFW Muses. Each event we create new performances and exclusive experiences for members to connect.

Some things to know. During this adventure, members and their guests will be encouraged to explore connections in a safe, judgement-free space. We are LGBTQ+ inclusive and practice enthusiastic consent. Dress code is sexy and stylish.

Participation is never required. BYOB not allowed.

If you have any questions before the event reach out on TheNSFW.Club.


LOCATION

This adventure will take place at Rosewood Theatre. Address is provided day of event to guests. You can also find or request on TheNSFW.Club.


CODE OF CONDUCT

Failure to comply with our Code of Conduct may result in removal or suspension. Privately report poor behavior by filling out an Incident Report. Our Code of Conduct was designed to keep our community safe and to prevent the violation of privacy of any members of The NSFW.

Speak up. We cannot keep our community safe if we are unaware of issues. Let us know.

We practice enthusiastic consent when engaging with new partners. Consent for any touch, conversations or digital interactions must be confirmed before engaging. This includes asking permission before sending direct messages on our private chats. If you do not want to receive requests for DMs, you have the option to make your account private on TheNSFW.Club.

Do not yuck on anyone’s yum.

Sex is varied and exploration takes many shapes.

Do not judge others for how they choose to express themselves sexually.

We embodying ideals inspired by love, compassion, sexual freedom, finding new states of happiness and self-awareness and acceptance. Those who are welcomed here are encouraged to explore, but everyone has the right to do so at their own pace. Never pressure anyone to engage in things they are not interested in.

We aim to create an environment where playfulness is encouraged, free from judgement and shame-based societal restrictions. We do not slut shame here. We don’t share revenge porn or images without the consent of those in it. Respect every members right to privacy.

Be kind to one another.

Hugs and signs of affection are encouraged. Think about each other and ways to make our community better. Our aim is to create a friendly environment where people feel welcomed and included.

We have zero tolerance for inappropriate behavior. This includes non-consensual contact, sending unsolicited direct messages or images, exhibiting harmful, divisive or hateful behavior, contributing to others feeling unsafe, or becoming overly intoxicated during live events. These behaviors run counter to our beliefs and only lead to division.

When handling disputes we ask members to come from a place of heal, not harm. We practice harm reduction in disputes between members and encourage those having issues in the membership to address it with the chief conspirator or council members.

The NSFW is a private community and we ask for disputes between the membership to be managed with harm reduction in mind. Do not share details about other members publicly. Do not reach out to other members on their personal social profiles unless they have given you approval to do so.

The NSFW is a diverse community. We are queer and BIPOC owned and operated. We condemn the practice of race based fetishization. Members who use hurtful words or who engage in practices that are anti-Black, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ageist, body shaming, whorephobic or xenophobic may be warned, removed or suspended from our community.

Members are expected to take rejection gracefully.

If someone isn’t interested in you or if you’re not interested in another person, please don’t take it as an opportunity to lash out or to respond in anger. Rejection is part of the process and shouldn’t be used to harm others.

As a member of The NSFW we are entrusting you with helping to contribute not only to an inviting and friendly atmosphere, but also to a place where we can explore radical self-expression safely.

Don’t be thirsty. Take a breath. Give people time to get to know our community and explore. It's okay to ignore and respond when you want or not at all. You do not owe anyone your time or attention. If you are asking to DM and get ignored, don't act out. Rejection is okay. Move on.

Be responsible and disclose your STD status with potential partners. Practicing enthusiastic consent means being honest about potential dangers you may be bringing to the bedroom. If you're receiving this information it's important to not respond negatively.

People have STDs and some are more common than others. We shouldn't stigmatize. If you're more active in the scene please get tested regularly. Know your status. Know your status. Know your status. Be honest.

Condom use must be discussed before engaging in sex with a new partner. Please verbalize whether or not the use of a condom is required. It’s okay to go raw, but ONLY if both partners consent. If a condom is requested and removed during sex please inform us so that we can take appropriate action.

 
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PlayDate: All Play
Apr
11
to Apr 12

PlayDate: All Play

 
 

MEMBERS-ONLY

You must be a vetted member of The NSFW to attend this event. You can apply for membership at TheNSFW.Club. Once approved you can purchase passes and connect to members on private chats before the party.


ENTER THE ADULT PLAYGROUND

If you’re looking to party and play this weekend, PlayDate is where you should be. One of the highest rated play parties in New York, this event is designed to titillate and excite with live performances and demonstrations from some of the cities top dommes and erotic artists. 

During this Adventure you’ll get to meet some new members and mingle in a carefully curated collection of sexy singles, couples and groups. This is one of our most popular events so the guestlist normally hits above 50 members so expect plenty of opportunities to make a first impression. There will be spaces for non-play and coupled only spaces to explore.

Here are some things to expect at The NSFW PlayDate

What you can expect:

  • Meet new and classic members for connections and play.

  • Get aroused by live kink performances or maybe pick up a pad and engage in some erotic sketching. Each event we create new performances and exclusive experiences.

  • Feeling Frisky? Find places to sneak away for semi-private and more public romps.

  • Bartender with selection of sodas, juices and mixers. 

Some things to know. During this adventure, members and their guests will be encouraged to explore desires in a safe, judgement-free space. We are LGBTQ+ inclusive and practice enthusiastic consent. Dress code is black. Dress and play to your level of enjoyment and comfort. Participation is never required. BYOB is allowed and there’s a bar with mixers.

If you have any questions before the event reach out on TheNSFW.Club.


LOCATION

This adventure will take place in Queens Village. Closer to Long Island. Address is provided day of event to guests. You can also find or request on TheNSFW.Club.



CODE OF CONDUCT

Failure to comply with our Code of Conduct may result in removal or suspension. Privately report poor behavior by filling out an Incident Report. Our Code of Conduct was designed to keep our community safe and to prevent the violation of privacy of any members of The NSFW.

Speak up. We cannot keep our community safe if we are unaware of issues. Let us know.

We practice enthusiastic consent when engaging with new partners. Consent for any touch, conversations or digital interactions must be confirmed before engaging. This includes asking permission before sending direct messages on our private chats. If you do not want to receive requests for DMs, you have the option to make your account private on TheNSFW.Club.

Do not yuck on anyone’s yum.

Sex is varied and exploration takes many shapes.

Do not judge others for how they choose to express themselves sexually.

We embodying ideals inspired by love, compassion, sexual freedom, finding new states of happiness and self-awareness and acceptance. Those who are welcomed here are encouraged to explore, but everyone has the right to do so at their own pace. Never pressure anyone to engage in things they are not interested in.

We aim to create an environment where playfulness is encouraged, free from judgement and shame-based societal restrictions. We do not slut shame here. We don’t share revenge porn or images without the consent of those in it. Respect every members right to privacy.

Be kind to one another.

Hugs and signs of affection are encouraged. Think about each other and ways to make our community better. Our aim is to create a friendly environment where people feel welcomed and included.

We have zero tolerance for inappropriate behavior. This includes non-consensual contact, sending unsolicited direct messages or images, exhibiting harmful, divisive or hateful behavior, contributing to others feeling unsafe, or becoming overly intoxicated during live events. These behaviors run counter to our beliefs and only lead to division.

When handling disputes we ask members to come from a place of heal, not harm. We practice harm reduction in disputes between members and encourage those having issues in the membership to address it with the chief conspirator or council members.

The NSFW is a private community and we ask for disputes between the membership to be managed with harm reduction in mind. Do not share details about other members publicly. Do not reach out to other members on their personal social profiles unless they have given you approval to do so.

The NSFW is a diverse community. We are queer and BIPOC owned and operated. We condemn the practice of race based fetishization. Members who use hurtful words or who engage in practices that are anti-Black, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ageist, body shaming, whorephobic or xenophobic may be warned, removed or suspended from our community.

Members are expected to take rejection gracefully.

If someone isn’t interested in you or if you’re not interested in another person, please don’t take it as an opportunity to lash out or to respond in anger. Rejection is part of the process and shouldn’t be used to harm others.

As a member of The NSFW we are entrusting you with helping to contribute not only to an inviting and friendly atmosphere, but also to a place where we can explore radical self-expression safely.

Don’t be thirsty. Take a breath. Give people time to get to know our community and explore. It's okay to ignore and respond when you want or not at all. You do not owe anyone your time or attention. If you are asking to DM and get ignored, don't act out. Rejection is okay. Move on.

Be responsible and disclose your STD status with potential partners. Practicing enthusiastic consent means being honest about potential dangers you may be bringing to the bedroom. If you're receiving this information it's important to not respond negatively.

People have STDs and some are more common than others. We shouldn't stigmatize. If you're more active in the scene please get tested regularly. Know your status. Know your status. Know your status. Be honest.

Condom use must be discussed before engaging in sex with a new partner. Please verbalize whether or not the use of a condom is required. It’s okay to go raw, but ONLY if both partners consent. If a condom is requested and removed during sex please inform us so that we can take appropriate action.

 
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Learn the Ropes
Apr
16

Learn the Ropes

 
 

MEMBERS-ONLY

You must be a vetted member of The NSFW to attend this event. You can apply for membership at TheNSFW.Club. Once approved you can purchase passes and connect to members on private chats before the party.


SHIBARI LESSON & PERFORMANCE

Join us for a night of knots, tension, and teasing at the Rosewood Theatre—where curiosity meets connection in a setting designed to seduce the senses. This NSFW Adventure invites you to explore the art of shibari, beginning with a guided lesson on bedroom ties that are as playful as they are provocative. Whether you bring your own rope or let us provide, you’ll learn how restraint can become its own kind of language.

The evening unfolds with a curated mix of sexy singles and adventurous couples, all there to mingle, flirt, and make an impression. Our dating experiences are known to draw a lively crowd—often 40+ members—so expect chemistry in the air and plenty of opportunities to connect. While this isn’t a play space, the energy leans deliciously close: stolen kisses, lingering touches, and just enough mischief to keep things interesting.

Dress to feel irresistible—lingerie, harnesses, or your favorite kink-inspired look are all welcome. And as the night tightens its grip, surrender to a captivating live shibari performance that transforms rope into something hypnotic, intimate, and undeniably beautiful.

Come curious. Leave a little undone.

Some things to know. During this adventure, members and their guests will be encouraged to explore connections in a safe, judgement-free space. We are LGBTQ+ inclusive and practice enthusiastic consent. Dress code is sexy and stylish.

Participation is never required. BYOB not allowed.

If you have any questions before the event reach out on TheNSFW.Club.


LOCATION

This adventure will take place in the Rosewood Theatre. Address is provided day of event to guests. You can also find or request on TheNSFW.Club.


CODE OF CONDUCT

Failure to comply with our Code of Conduct may result in removal or suspension. Privately report poor behavior by filling out an Incident Report. Our Code of Conduct was designed to keep our community safe and to prevent the violation of privacy of any members of The NSFW.

Speak up. We cannot keep our community safe if we are unaware of issues. Let us know.

We practice enthusiastic consent when engaging with new partners. Consent for any touch, conversations or digital interactions must be confirmed before engaging. This includes asking permission before sending direct messages on our private chats. If you do not want to receive requests for DMs, you have the option to make your account private on TheNSFW.Club.

Do not yuck on anyone’s yum.

Sex is varied and exploration takes many shapes.

Do not judge others for how they choose to express themselves sexually.

We embodying ideals inspired by love, compassion, sexual freedom, finding new states of happiness and self-awareness and acceptance. Those who are welcomed here are encouraged to explore, but everyone has the right to do so at their own pace. Never pressure anyone to engage in things they are not interested in.

We aim to create an environment where playfulness is encouraged, free from judgement and shame-based societal restrictions. We do not slut shame here. We don’t share revenge porn or images without the consent of those in it. Respect every members right to privacy.

Be kind to one another.

Hugs and signs of affection are encouraged. Think about each other and ways to make our community better. Our aim is to create a friendly environment where people feel welcomed and included.

We have zero tolerance for inappropriate behavior. This includes non-consensual contact, sending unsolicited direct messages or images, exhibiting harmful, divisive or hateful behavior, contributing to others feeling unsafe, or becoming overly intoxicated during live events. These behaviors run counter to our beliefs and only lead to division.

When handling disputes we ask members to come from a place of heal, not harm. We practice harm reduction in disputes between members and encourage those having issues in the membership to address it with the chief conspirator or council members.

The NSFW is a private community and we ask for disputes between the membership to be managed with harm reduction in mind. Do not share details about other members publicly. Do not reach out to other members on their personal social profiles unless they have given you approval to do so.

The NSFW is a diverse community. We are queer and BIPOC owned and operated. We condemn the practice of race based fetishization. Members who use hurtful words or who engage in practices that are anti-Black, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ageist, body shaming, whorephobic or xenophobic may be warned, removed or suspended from our community.

Members are expected to take rejection gracefully.

If someone isn’t interested in you or if you’re not interested in another person, please don’t take it as an opportunity to lash out or to respond in anger. Rejection is part of the process and shouldn’t be used to harm others.

As a member of The NSFW we are entrusting you with helping to contribute not only to an inviting and friendly atmosphere, but also to a place where we can explore radical self-expression safely.

Don’t be thirsty. Take a breath. Give people time to get to know our community and explore. It's okay to ignore and respond when you want or not at all. You do not owe anyone your time or attention. If you are asking to DM and get ignored, don't act out. Rejection is okay. Move on.

Be responsible and disclose your STD status with potential partners. Practicing enthusiastic consent means being honest about potential dangers you may be bringing to the bedroom. If you're receiving this information it's important to not respond negatively.

People have STDs and some are more common than others. We shouldn't stigmatize. If you're more active in the scene please get tested regularly. Know your status. Know your status. Know your status. Be honest.

Condom use must be discussed before engaging in sex with a new partner. Please verbalize whether or not the use of a condom is required. It’s okay to go raw, but ONLY if both partners consent. If a condom is requested and removed during sex please inform us so that we can take appropriate action.

 
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PlayDate: All Play
Apr
24
to Apr 25

PlayDate: All Play

 
 

MEMBERS-ONLY

You must be a vetted member of The NSFW to attend this event. You can apply for membership at TheNSFW.Club. Once approved you can purchase passes and connect to members on private chats before the party.


ENTER THE ADULT PLAYGROUND

If you’re looking to party and play this weekend, PlayDate is where you should be. One of the highest rated play parties in New York, this event is designed to titillate and excite with live performances and demonstrations from some of the cities top dommes and erotic artists. 

During this Adventure you’ll get to meet some new members and mingle in a carefully curated collection of sexy singles, couples and groups. This is one of our most popular events so the guestlist normally hits above 50 members so expect plenty of opportunities to make a first impression. There will be spaces for non-play and coupled only spaces to explore.

Here are some things to expect at The NSFW PlayDate

What you can expect:

  • Meet new and classic members for connections and play.

  • Get aroused by live kink performances or maybe pick up a pad and engage in some erotic sketching. Each event we create new performances and exclusive experiences.

  • Feeling Frisky? Find places to sneak away for semi-private and more public romps.

  • Bartender with selection of sodas, juices and mixers. 

Some things to know. During this adventure, members and their guests will be encouraged to explore desires in a safe, judgement-free space. We are LGBTQ+ inclusive and practice enthusiastic consent. Dress code is black. Dress and play to your level of enjoyment and comfort. Participation is never required. BYOB is allowed and there’s a bar with mixers.

If you have any questions before the event reach out on TheNSFW.Club.


LOCATION

This adventure will take place in Bushwick, Brooklyn. Address is provided day of event to guests. You can also find or request on TheNSFW.Club.


CODE OF CONDUCT

Failure to comply with our Code of Conduct may result in removal or suspension. Privately report poor behavior by filling out an Incident Report. Our Code of Conduct was designed to keep our community safe and to prevent the violation of privacy of any members of The NSFW.

Speak up. We cannot keep our community safe if we are unaware of issues. Let us know.

We practice enthusiastic consent when engaging with new partners. Consent for any touch, conversations or digital interactions must be confirmed before engaging. This includes asking permission before sending direct messages on our private chats. If you do not want to receive requests for DMs, you have the option to make your account private on TheNSFW.Club.

Do not yuck on anyone’s yum.

Sex is varied and exploration takes many shapes.

Do not judge others for how they choose to express themselves sexually.

We embodying ideals inspired by love, compassion, sexual freedom, finding new states of happiness and self-awareness and acceptance. Those who are welcomed here are encouraged to explore, but everyone has the right to do so at their own pace. Never pressure anyone to engage in things they are not interested in.

We aim to create an environment where playfulness is encouraged, free from judgement and shame-based societal restrictions. We do not slut shame here. We don’t share revenge porn or images without the consent of those in it. Respect every members right to privacy.

Be kind to one another.

Hugs and signs of affection are encouraged. Think about each other and ways to make our community better. Our aim is to create a friendly environment where people feel welcomed and included.

We have zero tolerance for inappropriate behavior. This includes non-consensual contact, sending unsolicited direct messages or images, exhibiting harmful, divisive or hateful behavior, contributing to others feeling unsafe, or becoming overly intoxicated during live events. These behaviors run counter to our beliefs and only lead to division.

When handling disputes we ask members to come from a place of heal, not harm. We practice harm reduction in disputes between members and encourage those having issues in the membership to address it with the chief conspirator or council members.

The NSFW is a private community and we ask for disputes between the membership to be managed with harm reduction in mind. Do not share details about other members publicly. Do not reach out to other members on their personal social profiles unless they have given you approval to do so.

The NSFW is a diverse community. We are queer and BIPOC owned and operated. We condemn the practice of race based fetishization. Members who use hurtful words or who engage in practices that are anti-Black, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ageist, body shaming, whorephobic or xenophobic may be warned, removed or suspended from our community.

Members are expected to take rejection gracefully.

If someone isn’t interested in you or if you’re not interested in another person, please don’t take it as an opportunity to lash out or to respond in anger. Rejection is part of the process and shouldn’t be used to harm others.

As a member of The NSFW we are entrusting you with helping to contribute not only to an inviting and friendly atmosphere, but also to a place where we can explore radical self-expression safely.

Don’t be thirsty. Take a breath. Give people time to get to know our community and explore. It's okay to ignore and respond when you want or not at all. You do not owe anyone your time or attention. If you are asking to DM and get ignored, don't act out. Rejection is okay. Move on.

Be responsible and disclose your STD status with potential partners. Practicing enthusiastic consent means being honest about potential dangers you may be bringing to the bedroom. If you're receiving this information it's important to not respond negatively.

People have STDs and some are more common than others. We shouldn't stigmatize. If you're more active in the scene please get tested regularly. Know your status. Know your status. Know your status. Be honest.

Condom use must be discussed before engaging in sex with a new partner. Please verbalize whether or not the use of a condom is required. It’s okay to go raw, but ONLY if both partners consent. If a condom is requested and removed during sex please inform us so that we can take appropriate action.

 
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PlayDate: Couples Only
Apr
25
to Apr 26

PlayDate: Couples Only

 
 

MEMBERS-ONLY

You must be a vetted member of The NSFW to attend this event. You can apply for membership at TheNSFW.Club. Once approved you can purchase passes and connect to members on private chats before the party.


ENTER THE ADULT PLAYGROUND

If you’re looking to party and play this weekend, PlayDate is where you should be. One of the highest rated play parties in New York, this event is designed to titillate and excite with live performances and demonstrations from some of the cities top dommes and erotic artists. 

During this Adventure you’ll get to meet some new members and mingle in a carefully curated collection of sexy couples and groups. This is one of our most popular events so the guestlist normally hits above 50 members so expect plenty of opportunities to make a first impression. There will be spaces for non-play and coupled only spaces to explore.

Here are some things to expect at The NSFW PlayDate

What you can expect:

  • Meet new and classic members for connections and play.

  • Get aroused by live kink performances or maybe pick up a pad and engage in some erotic sketching. Each event we create new performances and exclusive experiences.

  • Feeling Frisky? Find places to sneak away for semi-private and more public romps.

  • Bartender with selection of sodas, juices and mixers. 

Some things to know. During this adventure, members and their guests will be encouraged to explore desires in a safe, judgement-free space. We are LGBTQ+ inclusive and practice enthusiastic consent. Dress code is black. Dress and play to your level of enjoyment and comfort. Participation is never required. BYOB is allowed and there’s a bar with mixers.

If you have any questions before the event reach out on TheNSFW.Club.


LOCATION

This adventure will take place in Bushwick, Brooklyn. Address is provided day of event to guests. You can also find or request on TheNSFW.Club.


CODE OF CONDUCT

Failure to comply with our Code of Conduct may result in removal or suspension. Privately report poor behavior by filling out an Incident Report. Our Code of Conduct was designed to keep our community safe and to prevent the violation of privacy of any members of The NSFW.

Speak up. We cannot keep our community safe if we are unaware of issues. Let us know.

We practice enthusiastic consent when engaging with new partners. Consent for any touch, conversations or digital interactions must be confirmed before engaging. This includes asking permission before sending direct messages on our private chats. If you do not want to receive requests for DMs, you have the option to make your account private on TheNSFW.Club.

Do not yuck on anyone’s yum.

Sex is varied and exploration takes many shapes.

Do not judge others for how they choose to express themselves sexually.

We embodying ideals inspired by love, compassion, sexual freedom, finding new states of happiness and self-awareness and acceptance. Those who are welcomed here are encouraged to explore, but everyone has the right to do so at their own pace. Never pressure anyone to engage in things they are not interested in.

We aim to create an environment where playfulness is encouraged, free from judgement and shame-based societal restrictions. We do not slut shame here. We don’t share revenge porn or images without the consent of those in it. Respect every members right to privacy.

Be kind to one another.

Hugs and signs of affection are encouraged. Think about each other and ways to make our community better. Our aim is to create a friendly environment where people feel welcomed and included.

We have zero tolerance for inappropriate behavior. This includes non-consensual contact, sending unsolicited direct messages or images, exhibiting harmful, divisive or hateful behavior, contributing to others feeling unsafe, or becoming overly intoxicated during live events. These behaviors run counter to our beliefs and only lead to division.

When handling disputes we ask members to come from a place of heal, not harm. We practice harm reduction in disputes between members and encourage those having issues in the membership to address it with the chief conspirator or council members.

The NSFW is a private community and we ask for disputes between the membership to be managed with harm reduction in mind. Do not share details about other members publicly. Do not reach out to other members on their personal social profiles unless they have given you approval to do so.

The NSFW is a diverse community. We are queer and BIPOC owned and operated. We condemn the practice of race based fetishization. Members who use hurtful words or who engage in practices that are anti-Black, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ageist, body shaming, whorephobic or xenophobic may be warned, removed or suspended from our community.

Members are expected to take rejection gracefully.

If someone isn’t interested in you or if you’re not interested in another person, please don’t take it as an opportunity to lash out or to respond in anger. Rejection is part of the process and shouldn’t be used to harm others.

As a member of The NSFW we are entrusting you with helping to contribute not only to an inviting and friendly atmosphere, but also to a place where we can explore radical self-expression safely.

Don’t be thirsty. Take a breath. Give people time to get to know our community and explore. It's okay to ignore and respond when you want or not at all. You do not owe anyone your time or attention. If you are asking to DM and get ignored, don't act out. Rejection is okay. Move on.

Be responsible and disclose your STD status with potential partners. Practicing enthusiastic consent means being honest about potential dangers you may be bringing to the bedroom. If you're receiving this information it's important to not respond negatively.

People have STDs and some are more common than others. We shouldn't stigmatize. If you're more active in the scene please get tested regularly. Know your status. Know your status. Know your status. Be honest.

Condom use must be discussed before engaging in sex with a new partner. Please verbalize whether or not the use of a condom is required. It’s okay to go raw, but ONLY if both partners consent. If a condom is requested and removed during sex please inform us so that we can take appropriate action.

 
View Event →
PlayDate: All Play
Apr
25
to Apr 26

PlayDate: All Play

 
 

MEMBERS-ONLY

You must be a vetted member of The NSFW to attend this event. You can apply for membership at TheNSFW.Club. Once approved you can purchase passes and connect to members on private chats before the party.


ENTER THE ADULT PLAYGROUND

If you’re looking to party and play this weekend, PlayDate is where you should be. One of the highest rated play parties in New York, this event is designed to titillate and excite with live performances and demonstrations from some of the cities top dommes and erotic artists. 

During this Adventure you’ll get to meet some new members and mingle in a carefully curated collection of sexy singles, couples and groups. This is one of our most popular events so the guestlist normally hits above 50 members so expect plenty of opportunities to make a first impression. There will be spaces for non-play and coupled only spaces to explore.

Here are some things to expect at The NSFW PlayDate

What you can expect:

  • Meet new and classic members for connections and play.

  • Get aroused by live kink performances or maybe pick up a pad and engage in some erotic sketching. Each event we create new performances and exclusive experiences.

  • Feeling Frisky? Find places to sneak away for semi-private and more public romps.

  • Bartender with selection of sodas, juices and mixers. 

Some things to know. During this adventure, members and their guests will be encouraged to explore desires in a safe, judgement-free space. We are LGBTQ+ inclusive and practice enthusiastic consent. Dress code is black. Dress and play to your level of enjoyment and comfort. Participation is never required. BYOB is allowed and there’s a bar with mixers.

If you have any questions before the event reach out on TheNSFW.Club.


LOCATION

This adventure will take place in Miami, Florida. Address is provided day of event to guests. You can also find or request on TheNSFW.Club.


CODE OF CONDUCT

Failure to comply with our Code of Conduct may result in removal or suspension. Privately report poor behavior by filling out an Incident Report. Our Code of Conduct was designed to keep our community safe and to prevent the violation of privacy of any members of The NSFW.

Speak up. We cannot keep our community safe if we are unaware of issues. Let us know.

We practice enthusiastic consent when engaging with new partners. Consent for any touch, conversations or digital interactions must be confirmed before engaging. This includes asking permission before sending direct messages on our private chats. If you do not want to receive requests for DMs, you have the option to make your account private on TheNSFW.Club.

Do not yuck on anyone’s yum.

Sex is varied and exploration takes many shapes.

Do not judge others for how they choose to express themselves sexually.

We embodying ideals inspired by love, compassion, sexual freedom, finding new states of happiness and self-awareness and acceptance. Those who are welcomed here are encouraged to explore, but everyone has the right to do so at their own pace. Never pressure anyone to engage in things they are not interested in.

We aim to create an environment where playfulness is encouraged, free from judgement and shame-based societal restrictions. We do not slut shame here. We don’t share revenge porn or images without the consent of those in it. Respect every members right to privacy.

Be kind to one another.

Hugs and signs of affection are encouraged. Think about each other and ways to make our community better. Our aim is to create a friendly environment where people feel welcomed and included.

We have zero tolerance for inappropriate behavior. This includes non-consensual contact, sending unsolicited direct messages or images, exhibiting harmful, divisive or hateful behavior, contributing to others feeling unsafe, or becoming overly intoxicated during live events. These behaviors run counter to our beliefs and only lead to division.

When handling disputes we ask members to come from a place of heal, not harm. We practice harm reduction in disputes between members and encourage those having issues in the membership to address it with the chief conspirator or council members.

The NSFW is a private community and we ask for disputes between the membership to be managed with harm reduction in mind. Do not share details about other members publicly. Do not reach out to other members on their personal social profiles unless they have given you approval to do so.

The NSFW is a diverse community. We are queer and BIPOC owned and operated. We condemn the practice of race based fetishization. Members who use hurtful words or who engage in practices that are anti-Black, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ageist, body shaming, whorephobic or xenophobic may be warned, removed or suspended from our community.

Members are expected to take rejection gracefully.

If someone isn’t interested in you or if you’re not interested in another person, please don’t take it as an opportunity to lash out or to respond in anger. Rejection is part of the process and shouldn’t be used to harm others.

As a member of The NSFW we are entrusting you with helping to contribute not only to an inviting and friendly atmosphere, but also to a place where we can explore radical self-expression safely.

Don’t be thirsty. Take a breath. Give people time to get to know our community and explore. It's okay to ignore and respond when you want or not at all. You do not owe anyone your time or attention. If you are asking to DM and get ignored, don't act out. Rejection is okay. Move on.

Be responsible and disclose your STD status with potential partners. Practicing enthusiastic consent means being honest about potential dangers you may be bringing to the bedroom. If you're receiving this information it's important to not respond negatively.

People have STDs and some are more common than others. We shouldn't stigmatize. If you're more active in the scene please get tested regularly. Know your status. Know your status. Know your status. Be honest.

Condom use must be discussed before engaging in sex with a new partner. Please verbalize whether or not the use of a condom is required. It’s okay to go raw, but ONLY if both partners consent. If a condom is requested and removed during sex please inform us so that we can take appropriate action.

 
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PlayDate: All Play
May
9
to May 10

PlayDate: All Play

 
 

MEMBERS-ONLY

You must be a vetted member of The NSFW to attend this event. You can apply for membership at TheNSFW.Club. Once approved you can purchase passes and connect to members on private chats before the party.


ENTER THE ADULT PLAYGROUND

If you’re looking to party and play this weekend, PlayDate is where you should be. One of the highest rated play parties in New York, this event is designed to titillate and excite with live performances and demonstrations from some of the cities top dommes and erotic artists. 

During this Adventure you’ll get to meet some new members and mingle in a carefully curated collection of sexy singles, couples and groups. This is one of our most popular events so the guestlist normally hits above 50 members so expect plenty of opportunities to make a first impression. There will be spaces for non-play and coupled only spaces to explore.

Here are some things to expect at The NSFW PlayDate

What you can expect:

  • Meet new and classic members for connections and play.

  • Get aroused by live kink performances or maybe pick up a pad and engage in some erotic sketching. Each event we create new performances and exclusive experiences.

  • Feeling Frisky? Find places to sneak away for semi-private and more public romps.

  • Bartender with selection of sodas, juices and mixers. 

Some things to know. During this adventure, members and their guests will be encouraged to explore desires in a safe, judgement-free space. We are LGBTQ+ inclusive and practice enthusiastic consent. Dress code is black. Dress and play to your level of enjoyment and comfort. Participation is never required. BYOB is allowed and there’s a bar with mixers.

If you have any questions before the event reach out on TheNSFW.Club.


LOCATION

This adventure will take place in Queens Village. Closer to Long Island. Address is provided day of event to guests. You can also find or request on TheNSFW.Club.


CODE OF CONDUCT

Failure to comply with our Code of Conduct may result in removal or suspension. Privately report poor behavior by filling out an Incident Report. Our Code of Conduct was designed to keep our community safe and to prevent the violation of privacy of any members of The NSFW.

Speak up. We cannot keep our community safe if we are unaware of issues. Let us know.

We practice enthusiastic consent when engaging with new partners. Consent for any touch, conversations or digital interactions must be confirmed before engaging. This includes asking permission before sending direct messages on our private chats. If you do not want to receive requests for DMs, you have the option to make your account private on TheNSFW.Club.

Do not yuck on anyone’s yum.

Sex is varied and exploration takes many shapes.

Do not judge others for how they choose to express themselves sexually.

We embodying ideals inspired by love, compassion, sexual freedom, finding new states of happiness and self-awareness and acceptance. Those who are welcomed here are encouraged to explore, but everyone has the right to do so at their own pace. Never pressure anyone to engage in things they are not interested in.

We aim to create an environment where playfulness is encouraged, free from judgement and shame-based societal restrictions. We do not slut shame here. We don’t share revenge porn or images without the consent of those in it. Respect every members right to privacy.

Be kind to one another.

Hugs and signs of affection are encouraged. Think about each other and ways to make our community better. Our aim is to create a friendly environment where people feel welcomed and included.

We have zero tolerance for inappropriate behavior. This includes non-consensual contact, sending unsolicited direct messages or images, exhibiting harmful, divisive or hateful behavior, contributing to others feeling unsafe, or becoming overly intoxicated during live events. These behaviors run counter to our beliefs and only lead to division.

When handling disputes we ask members to come from a place of heal, not harm. We practice harm reduction in disputes between members and encourage those having issues in the membership to address it with the chief conspirator or council members.

The NSFW is a private community and we ask for disputes between the membership to be managed with harm reduction in mind. Do not share details about other members publicly. Do not reach out to other members on their personal social profiles unless they have given you approval to do so.

The NSFW is a diverse community. We are queer and BIPOC owned and operated. We condemn the practice of race based fetishization. Members who use hurtful words or who engage in practices that are anti-Black, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ageist, body shaming, whorephobic or xenophobic may be warned, removed or suspended from our community.

Members are expected to take rejection gracefully.

If someone isn’t interested in you or if you’re not interested in another person, please don’t take it as an opportunity to lash out or to respond in anger. Rejection is part of the process and shouldn’t be used to harm others.

As a member of The NSFW we are entrusting you with helping to contribute not only to an inviting and friendly atmosphere, but also to a place where we can explore radical self-expression safely.

Don’t be thirsty. Take a breath. Give people time to get to know our community and explore. It's okay to ignore and respond when you want or not at all. You do not owe anyone your time or attention. If you are asking to DM and get ignored, don't act out. Rejection is okay. Move on.

Be responsible and disclose your STD status with potential partners. Practicing enthusiastic consent means being honest about potential dangers you may be bringing to the bedroom. If you're receiving this information it's important to not respond negatively.

People have STDs and some are more common than others. We shouldn't stigmatize. If you're more active in the scene please get tested regularly. Know your status. Know your status. Know your status. Be honest.

Condom use must be discussed before engaging in sex with a new partner. Please verbalize whether or not the use of a condom is required. It’s okay to go raw, but ONLY if both partners consent. If a condom is requested and removed during sex please inform us so that we can take appropriate action.

 
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KINKLAB
May
9
to May 10

KINKLAB

 
 

MEMBERS-ONLY

You must be a vetted member of The NSFW to attend this event. You can apply for membership at TheNSFW.Club. Once approved you can purchase passes and connect to members on private chats before the party.


Curious where kink begins? Right here.

Step inside the Rosewood Theatre for a night designed to turn curiosity into confidence. This NSFW Adventure is a guided introduction to the world of BDSM and fetish—an inviting, judgment-free space where newcomers can explore, learn, and indulge at their own pace.

Throughout the evening, you’ll be introduced to a spectrum of kinks—from bondage and rope play to spanking, electric sensation, foot and tickle fetish, pup play, and the dynamic pull of dominance and submission. Think of it as a playground of possibility, where each station offers a new way to discover what excites you—with guidance from experienced hosts and professional Dommes who are there to educate, demonstrate, and tempt your imagination.

The energy is social, flirty, and welcoming—filled with sexy singles and adventurous couples ready to mingle and share in the experience. With a lively guestlist often exceeding 100 members, there’s no shortage of chemistry, conversation, and connection. While this isn’t a play space, the atmosphere invites exploration through presence, energy, and playful interaction.

Performances unfold throughout the night—erotic, artistic, and immersive—blurring the line between education and desire. And for those who want to go deeper, you’ll have the opportunity to meet professional Dommes, ask questions, and begin your journey with guidance that’s both safe and seductive.

Dress to express your curiosity—whether that’s leather, latex, lingerie, or simply something that makes you feel a little more daring than usual.

No experience required. Just an open mind—and maybe a willingness to be surprised by what you like.Some things to know. During this adventure, members and their guests will be encouraged to explore connections in a safe, judgement-free space. We are LGBTQ+ inclusive and practice enthusiastic consent. Dress code is sexy and stylish.

Participation is never required. BYOB not allowed.

If you have any questions before the event reach out on TheNSFW.Club.


LOCATION

This adventure will take place at Rosewood Theatre. Address is provided day of event to guests. You can also find or request on TheNSFW.Club.


CODE OF CONDUCT

Failure to comply with our Code of Conduct may result in removal or suspension. Privately report poor behavior by filling out an Incident Report. Our Code of Conduct was designed to keep our community safe and to prevent the violation of privacy of any members of The NSFW.

Speak up. We cannot keep our community safe if we are unaware of issues. Let us know.

We practice enthusiastic consent when engaging with new partners. Consent for any touch, conversations or digital interactions must be confirmed before engaging. This includes asking permission before sending direct messages on our private chats. If you do not want to receive requests for DMs, you have the option to make your account private on TheNSFW.Club.

Do not yuck on anyone’s yum.

Sex is varied and exploration takes many shapes.

Do not judge others for how they choose to express themselves sexually.

We embodying ideals inspired by love, compassion, sexual freedom, finding new states of happiness and self-awareness and acceptance. Those who are welcomed here are encouraged to explore, but everyone has the right to do so at their own pace. Never pressure anyone to engage in things they are not interested in.

We aim to create an environment where playfulness is encouraged, free from judgement and shame-based societal restrictions. We do not slut shame here. We don’t share revenge porn or images without the consent of those in it. Respect every members right to privacy.

Be kind to one another.

Hugs and signs of affection are encouraged. Think about each other and ways to make our community better. Our aim is to create a friendly environment where people feel welcomed and included.

We have zero tolerance for inappropriate behavior. This includes non-consensual contact, sending unsolicited direct messages or images, exhibiting harmful, divisive or hateful behavior, contributing to others feeling unsafe, or becoming overly intoxicated during live events. These behaviors run counter to our beliefs and only lead to division.

When handling disputes we ask members to come from a place of heal, not harm. We practice harm reduction in disputes between members and encourage those having issues in the membership to address it with the chief conspirator or council members.

The NSFW is a private community and we ask for disputes between the membership to be managed with harm reduction in mind. Do not share details about other members publicly. Do not reach out to other members on their personal social profiles unless they have given you approval to do so.

The NSFW is a diverse community. We are queer and BIPOC owned and operated. We condemn the practice of race based fetishization. Members who use hurtful words or who engage in practices that are anti-Black, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ageist, body shaming, whorephobic or xenophobic may be warned, removed or suspended from our community.

Members are expected to take rejection gracefully.

If someone isn’t interested in you or if you’re not interested in another person, please don’t take it as an opportunity to lash out or to respond in anger. Rejection is part of the process and shouldn’t be used to harm others.

As a member of The NSFW we are entrusting you with helping to contribute not only to an inviting and friendly atmosphere, but also to a place where we can explore radical self-expression safely.

Don’t be thirsty. Take a breath. Give people time to get to know our community and explore. It's okay to ignore and respond when you want or not at all. You do not owe anyone your time or attention. If you are asking to DM and get ignored, don't act out. Rejection is okay. Move on.

Be responsible and disclose your STD status with potential partners. Practicing enthusiastic consent means being honest about potential dangers you may be bringing to the bedroom. If you're receiving this information it's important to not respond negatively.

People have STDs and some are more common than others. We shouldn't stigmatize. If you're more active in the scene please get tested regularly. Know your status. Know your status. Know your status. Be honest.

Condom use must be discussed before engaging in sex with a new partner. Please verbalize whether or not the use of a condom is required. It’s okay to go raw, but ONLY if both partners consent. If a condom is requested and removed during sex please inform us so that we can take appropriate action.

 
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You Single?
May
15

You Single?

 
 

MEMBERS-ONLY

You must be a vetted member of The NSFW to attend this event. You can apply for membership at TheNSFW.Club. Once approved you can purchase passes and connect to members on private chats before the party.


SPICY DATING. SELECTIVE SINGLES.

A singles mixer for those who like things spicy. We’re welcoming selective singles who are looking for like minded new lovers and friends. Enter the Rosewood Theatre and be ready for the night by coming with curiosity and a desire to connect.

During this Adventure you’ll get to meet some members and mingle in a carefully curated collection of sexy singles. Dating events are usually popular, the guestlist normally hits above 40 members, so expect plenty of opportunities to make a first impression. This is not a play space, but make-outs and heavy petting are allowed. Lingerie and kink gear can be worn if it makes you feel sexy.

Here are some things to expect at You Single?

What you can expect:

  • Meet new and classic members for connections and play.

  • Speed dating ran by the NSFW Muses. Each event we create new performances and exclusive experiences for members to connect.

  • Bartender with selection of sodas, juices and mixers. 

Some things to know. During this adventure, members and their guests will be encouraged to explore connections in a safe, judgement-free space. We are LGBTQ+ inclusive and practice enthusiastic consent. Dress code is sexy and stylish.

Participation is never required. BYOB not allowed.

If you have any questions before the event reach out on TheNSFW.Club.


LOCATION

This adventure will take place at Rosewood Theatre. Address is provided day of event to guests. You can also find or request on TheNSFW.Club.


CODE OF CONDUCT

Failure to comply with our Code of Conduct may result in removal or suspension. Privately report poor behavior by filling out an Incident Report. Our Code of Conduct was designed to keep our community safe and to prevent the violation of privacy of any members of The NSFW.

Speak up. We cannot keep our community safe if we are unaware of issues. Let us know.

We practice enthusiastic consent when engaging with new partners. Consent for any touch, conversations or digital interactions must be confirmed before engaging. This includes asking permission before sending direct messages on our private chats. If you do not want to receive requests for DMs, you have the option to make your account private on TheNSFW.Club.

Do not yuck on anyone’s yum.

Sex is varied and exploration takes many shapes.

Do not judge others for how they choose to express themselves sexually.

We embodying ideals inspired by love, compassion, sexual freedom, finding new states of happiness and self-awareness and acceptance. Those who are welcomed here are encouraged to explore, but everyone has the right to do so at their own pace. Never pressure anyone to engage in things they are not interested in.

We aim to create an environment where playfulness is encouraged, free from judgement and shame-based societal restrictions. We do not slut shame here. We don’t share revenge porn or images without the consent of those in it. Respect every members right to privacy.

Be kind to one another.

Hugs and signs of affection are encouraged. Think about each other and ways to make our community better. Our aim is to create a friendly environment where people feel welcomed and included.

We have zero tolerance for inappropriate behavior. This includes non-consensual contact, sending unsolicited direct messages or images, exhibiting harmful, divisive or hateful behavior, contributing to others feeling unsafe, or becoming overly intoxicated during live events. These behaviors run counter to our beliefs and only lead to division.

When handling disputes we ask members to come from a place of heal, not harm. We practice harm reduction in disputes between members and encourage those having issues in the membership to address it with the chief conspirator or council members.

The NSFW is a private community and we ask for disputes between the membership to be managed with harm reduction in mind. Do not share details about other members publicly. Do not reach out to other members on their personal social profiles unless they have given you approval to do so.

The NSFW is a diverse community. We are queer and BIPOC owned and operated. We condemn the practice of race based fetishization. Members who use hurtful words or who engage in practices that are anti-Black, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ageist, body shaming, whorephobic or xenophobic may be warned, removed or suspended from our community.

Members are expected to take rejection gracefully.

If someone isn’t interested in you or if you’re not interested in another person, please don’t take it as an opportunity to lash out or to respond in anger. Rejection is part of the process and shouldn’t be used to harm others.

As a member of The NSFW we are entrusting you with helping to contribute not only to an inviting and friendly atmosphere, but also to a place where we can explore radical self-expression safely.

Don’t be thirsty. Take a breath. Give people time to get to know our community and explore. It's okay to ignore and respond when you want or not at all. You do not owe anyone your time or attention. If you are asking to DM and get ignored, don't act out. Rejection is okay. Move on.

Be responsible and disclose your STD status with potential partners. Practicing enthusiastic consent means being honest about potential dangers you may be bringing to the bedroom. If you're receiving this information it's important to not respond negatively.

People have STDs and some are more common than others. We shouldn't stigmatize. If you're more active in the scene please get tested regularly. Know your status. Know your status. Know your status. Be honest.

Condom use must be discussed before engaging in sex with a new partner. Please verbalize whether or not the use of a condom is required. It’s okay to go raw, but ONLY if both partners consent. If a condom is requested and removed during sex please inform us so that we can take appropriate action.

 
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So You Think You Can Domme
May
21

So You Think You Can Domme

 
 

MEMBERS-ONLY

You must be a vetted member of The NSFW to attend this event. You can apply for membership at TheNSFW.Club. Once approved you can purchase passes and connect to members on private chats before the party.


DOMINANT SUBMISSIVE TRAINING

Power. Surrender. Control—redefined.

Step into a night of tension and trust at the Rosewood Theatre, where the art of dominance and submission is explored with intention, elegance, and just the right amount of edge. This NSFW Adventure invites you to learn from a professional Domme, guiding you through the fundamentals of D/s dynamics—how to command, how to yield, and how to create chemistry that lingers long after the lesson ends.

The evening begins with an immersive training session, designed for both the curious and the experienced. You’ll explore power play in a way that feels safe, consensual, and undeniably exciting—learning techniques, communication cues, and the subtle psychology behind control and surrender.

As the lesson unfolds into the night, the space opens into a curated social experience filled with sexy singles and playful couples. Expect a vibrant guestlist—often 40+ members—ready to mingle, flirt, and test the energy you’ve just discovered. This is not a play space, but the atmosphere invites connection: lingering eye contact, teasing proximity, and just enough permission to explore the spark.

Dress to embody your energy—dominant, submissive, or somewhere deliciously in between. Leather, lace, harnesses, or something that simply makes you feel powerful.

Come ready to learn. Stay for the tension. Leave knowing exactly how you like to be handled.

Some things to know. During this adventure, members and their guests will be encouraged to explore connections in a safe, judgement-free space. We are LGBTQ+ inclusive and practice enthusiastic consent. Dress code is sexy and stylish.

Participation is never required. BYOB not allowed.

If you have any questions before the event reach out on TheNSFW.Club.


LOCATION

This adventure will take place at Rosewood Theatre. Address is provided day of event to guests. You can also find or request on TheNSFW.Club.



CODE OF CONDUCT

Failure to comply with our Code of Conduct may result in removal or suspension. Privately report poor behavior by filling out an Incident Report. Our Code of Conduct was designed to keep our community safe and to prevent the violation of privacy of any members of The NSFW.

Speak up. We cannot keep our community safe if we are unaware of issues. Let us know.

We practice enthusiastic consent when engaging with new partners. Consent for any touch, conversations or digital interactions must be confirmed before engaging. This includes asking permission before sending direct messages on our private chats. If you do not want to receive requests for DMs, you have the option to make your account private on TheNSFW.Club.

Do not yuck on anyone’s yum.

Sex is varied and exploration takes many shapes.

Do not judge others for how they choose to express themselves sexually.

We embodying ideals inspired by love, compassion, sexual freedom, finding new states of happiness and self-awareness and acceptance. Those who are welcomed here are encouraged to explore, but everyone has the right to do so at their own pace. Never pressure anyone to engage in things they are not interested in.

We aim to create an environment where playfulness is encouraged, free from judgement and shame-based societal restrictions. We do not slut shame here. We don’t share revenge porn or images without the consent of those in it. Respect every members right to privacy.

Be kind to one another.

Hugs and signs of affection are encouraged. Think about each other and ways to make our community better. Our aim is to create a friendly environment where people feel welcomed and included.

We have zero tolerance for inappropriate behavior. This includes non-consensual contact, sending unsolicited direct messages or images, exhibiting harmful, divisive or hateful behavior, contributing to others feeling unsafe, or becoming overly intoxicated during live events. These behaviors run counter to our beliefs and only lead to division.

When handling disputes we ask members to come from a place of heal, not harm. We practice harm reduction in disputes between members and encourage those having issues in the membership to address it with the chief conspirator or council members.

The NSFW is a private community and we ask for disputes between the membership to be managed with harm reduction in mind. Do not share details about other members publicly. Do not reach out to other members on their personal social profiles unless they have given you approval to do so.

The NSFW is a diverse community. We are queer and BIPOC owned and operated. We condemn the practice of race based fetishization. Members who use hurtful words or who engage in practices that are anti-Black, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ageist, body shaming, whorephobic or xenophobic may be warned, removed or suspended from our community.

Members are expected to take rejection gracefully.

If someone isn’t interested in you or if you’re not interested in another person, please don’t take it as an opportunity to lash out or to respond in anger. Rejection is part of the process and shouldn’t be used to harm others.

As a member of The NSFW we are entrusting you with helping to contribute not only to an inviting and friendly atmosphere, but also to a place where we can explore radical self-expression safely.

Don’t be thirsty. Take a breath. Give people time to get to know our community and explore. It's okay to ignore and respond when you want or not at all. You do not owe anyone your time or attention. If you are asking to DM and get ignored, don't act out. Rejection is okay. Move on.

Be responsible and disclose your STD status with potential partners. Practicing enthusiastic consent means being honest about potential dangers you may be bringing to the bedroom. If you're receiving this information it's important to not respond negatively.

People have STDs and some are more common than others. We shouldn't stigmatize. If you're more active in the scene please get tested regularly. Know your status. Know your status. Know your status. Be honest.

Condom use must be discussed before engaging in sex with a new partner. Please verbalize whether or not the use of a condom is required. It’s okay to go raw, but ONLY if both partners consent. If a condom is requested and removed during sex please inform us so that we can take appropriate action.

 
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PlayDate: All Play
May
29
to May 30

PlayDate: All Play

 
 

MEMBERS-ONLY

You must be a vetted member of The NSFW to attend this event. You can apply for membership at TheNSFW.Club. Once approved you can purchase passes and connect to members on private chats before the party.


ENTER THE ADULT PLAYGROUND

If you’re looking to party and play this weekend, PlayDate is where you should be. One of the highest rated play parties in New York, this event is designed to titillate and excite with live performances and demonstrations from some of the cities top dommes and erotic artists. 

During this Adventure you’ll get to meet some new members and mingle in a carefully curated collection of sexy singles, couples and groups. This is one of our most popular events so the guestlist normally hits above 50 members so expect plenty of opportunities to make a first impression. There will be spaces for non-play and coupled only spaces to explore.

Here are some things to expect at The NSFW PlayDate

What you can expect:

  • Meet new and classic members for connections and play.

  • Get aroused by live kink performances or maybe pick up a pad and engage in some erotic sketching. Each event we create new performances and exclusive experiences.

  • Feeling Frisky? Find places to sneak away for semi-private and more public romps.

  • Bartender with selection of sodas, juices and mixers. 

Some things to know. During this adventure, members and their guests will be encouraged to explore desires in a safe, judgement-free space. We are LGBTQ+ inclusive and practice enthusiastic consent. Dress code is black. Dress and play to your level of enjoyment and comfort. Participation is never required. BYOB is allowed and there’s a bar with mixers.

If you have any questions before the event reach out on TheNSFW.Club.


LOCATION

This adventure will take place in Bushwick, Brooklyn. Address is provided day of event to guests. You can also find or request on TheNSFW.Club.


CODE OF CONDUCT

Failure to comply with our Code of Conduct may result in removal or suspension. Privately report poor behavior by filling out an Incident Report. Our Code of Conduct was designed to keep our community safe and to prevent the violation of privacy of any members of The NSFW.

Speak up. We cannot keep our community safe if we are unaware of issues. Let us know.

We practice enthusiastic consent when engaging with new partners. Consent for any touch, conversations or digital interactions must be confirmed before engaging. This includes asking permission before sending direct messages on our private chats. If you do not want to receive requests for DMs, you have the option to make your account private on TheNSFW.Club.

Do not yuck on anyone’s yum.

Sex is varied and exploration takes many shapes.

Do not judge others for how they choose to express themselves sexually.

We embodying ideals inspired by love, compassion, sexual freedom, finding new states of happiness and self-awareness and acceptance. Those who are welcomed here are encouraged to explore, but everyone has the right to do so at their own pace. Never pressure anyone to engage in things they are not interested in.

We aim to create an environment where playfulness is encouraged, free from judgement and shame-based societal restrictions. We do not slut shame here. We don’t share revenge porn or images without the consent of those in it. Respect every members right to privacy.

Be kind to one another.

Hugs and signs of affection are encouraged. Think about each other and ways to make our community better. Our aim is to create a friendly environment where people feel welcomed and included.

We have zero tolerance for inappropriate behavior. This includes non-consensual contact, sending unsolicited direct messages or images, exhibiting harmful, divisive or hateful behavior, contributing to others feeling unsafe, or becoming overly intoxicated during live events. These behaviors run counter to our beliefs and only lead to division.

When handling disputes we ask members to come from a place of heal, not harm. We practice harm reduction in disputes between members and encourage those having issues in the membership to address it with the chief conspirator or council members.

The NSFW is a private community and we ask for disputes between the membership to be managed with harm reduction in mind. Do not share details about other members publicly. Do not reach out to other members on their personal social profiles unless they have given you approval to do so.

The NSFW is a diverse community. We are queer and BIPOC owned and operated. We condemn the practice of race based fetishization. Members who use hurtful words or who engage in practices that are anti-Black, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ageist, body shaming, whorephobic or xenophobic may be warned, removed or suspended from our community.

Members are expected to take rejection gracefully.

If someone isn’t interested in you or if you’re not interested in another person, please don’t take it as an opportunity to lash out or to respond in anger. Rejection is part of the process and shouldn’t be used to harm others.

As a member of The NSFW we are entrusting you with helping to contribute not only to an inviting and friendly atmosphere, but also to a place where we can explore radical self-expression safely.

Don’t be thirsty. Take a breath. Give people time to get to know our community and explore. It's okay to ignore and respond when you want or not at all. You do not owe anyone your time or attention. If you are asking to DM and get ignored, don't act out. Rejection is okay. Move on.

Be responsible and disclose your STD status with potential partners. Practicing enthusiastic consent means being honest about potential dangers you may be bringing to the bedroom. If you're receiving this information it's important to not respond negatively.

People have STDs and some are more common than others. We shouldn't stigmatize. If you're more active in the scene please get tested regularly. Know your status. Know your status. Know your status. Be honest.

Condom use must be discussed before engaging in sex with a new partner. Please verbalize whether or not the use of a condom is required. It’s okay to go raw, but ONLY if both partners consent. If a condom is requested and removed during sex please inform us so that we can take appropriate action.

 
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PlayDate: Couples Only
May
30
to May 31

PlayDate: Couples Only

 
 

MEMBERS-ONLY

You must be a vetted member of The NSFW to attend this event. You can apply for membership at TheNSFW.Club. Once approved you can purchase passes and connect to members on private chats before the party.


ENTER THE ADULT PLAYGROUND

If you’re looking to party and play this weekend, PlayDate is where you should be. One of the highest rated play parties in New York, this event is designed to titillate and excite with live performances and demonstrations from some of the cities top dommes and erotic artists. 

During this Adventure you’ll get to meet some new members and mingle in a carefully curated collection of sexy couples and groups. This is one of our most popular events so the guestlist normally hits above 50 members so expect plenty of opportunities to make a first impression. There will be spaces for non-play and coupled only spaces to explore.

Here are some things to expect at The NSFW PlayDate

What you can expect:

  • Meet new and classic members for connections and play.

  • Get aroused by live kink performances or maybe pick up a pad and engage in some erotic sketching. Each event we create new performances and exclusive experiences.

  • Feeling Frisky? Find places to sneak away for semi-private and more public romps.

  • Bartender with selection of sodas, juices and mixers. 

Some things to know. During this adventure, members and their guests will be encouraged to explore desires in a safe, judgement-free space. We are LGBTQ+ inclusive and practice enthusiastic consent. Dress code is black. Dress and play to your level of enjoyment and comfort. Participation is never required. BYOB is allowed and there’s a bar with mixers.

If you have any questions before the event reach out on TheNSFW.Club.


LOCATION

This adventure will take place in Bushwick, Brooklyn. Address is provided day of event to guests. You can also find or request on TheNSFW.Club.


CODE OF CONDUCT

Failure to comply with our Code of Conduct may result in removal or suspension. Privately report poor behavior by filling out an Incident Report. Our Code of Conduct was designed to keep our community safe and to prevent the violation of privacy of any members of The NSFW.

Speak up. We cannot keep our community safe if we are unaware of issues. Let us know.

We practice enthusiastic consent when engaging with new partners. Consent for any touch, conversations or digital interactions must be confirmed before engaging. This includes asking permission before sending direct messages on our private chats. If you do not want to receive requests for DMs, you have the option to make your account private on TheNSFW.Club.

Do not yuck on anyone’s yum.

Sex is varied and exploration takes many shapes.

Do not judge others for how they choose to express themselves sexually.

We embodying ideals inspired by love, compassion, sexual freedom, finding new states of happiness and self-awareness and acceptance. Those who are welcomed here are encouraged to explore, but everyone has the right to do so at their own pace. Never pressure anyone to engage in things they are not interested in.

We aim to create an environment where playfulness is encouraged, free from judgement and shame-based societal restrictions. We do not slut shame here. We don’t share revenge porn or images without the consent of those in it. Respect every members right to privacy.

Be kind to one another.

Hugs and signs of affection are encouraged. Think about each other and ways to make our community better. Our aim is to create a friendly environment where people feel welcomed and included.

We have zero tolerance for inappropriate behavior. This includes non-consensual contact, sending unsolicited direct messages or images, exhibiting harmful, divisive or hateful behavior, contributing to others feeling unsafe, or becoming overly intoxicated during live events. These behaviors run counter to our beliefs and only lead to division.

When handling disputes we ask members to come from a place of heal, not harm. We practice harm reduction in disputes between members and encourage those having issues in the membership to address it with the chief conspirator or council members.

The NSFW is a private community and we ask for disputes between the membership to be managed with harm reduction in mind. Do not share details about other members publicly. Do not reach out to other members on their personal social profiles unless they have given you approval to do so.

The NSFW is a diverse community. We are queer and BIPOC owned and operated. We condemn the practice of race based fetishization. Members who use hurtful words or who engage in practices that are anti-Black, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ageist, body shaming, whorephobic or xenophobic may be warned, removed or suspended from our community.

Members are expected to take rejection gracefully.

If someone isn’t interested in you or if you’re not interested in another person, please don’t take it as an opportunity to lash out or to respond in anger. Rejection is part of the process and shouldn’t be used to harm others.

As a member of The NSFW we are entrusting you with helping to contribute not only to an inviting and friendly atmosphere, but also to a place where we can explore radical self-expression safely.

Don’t be thirsty. Take a breath. Give people time to get to know our community and explore. It's okay to ignore and respond when you want or not at all. You do not owe anyone your time or attention. If you are asking to DM and get ignored, don't act out. Rejection is okay. Move on.

Be responsible and disclose your STD status with potential partners. Practicing enthusiastic consent means being honest about potential dangers you may be bringing to the bedroom. If you're receiving this information it's important to not respond negatively.

People have STDs and some are more common than others. We shouldn't stigmatize. If you're more active in the scene please get tested regularly. Know your status. Know your status. Know your status. Be honest.

Condom use must be discussed before engaging in sex with a new partner. Please verbalize whether or not the use of a condom is required. It’s okay to go raw, but ONLY if both partners consent. If a condom is requested and removed during sex please inform us so that we can take appropriate action.

 
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PlayDate: All Play
Mar
28
to Mar 29

PlayDate: All Play

 
 

MEMBERS-ONLY

You must be a vetted member of The NSFW to attend this event. You can apply for membership at TheNSFW.Club. Once approved you can purchase passes and connect to members on private chats before the party.


ENTER THE ADULT PLAYGROUND

If you’re looking to party and play this weekend, PlayDate is where you should be. One of the highest rated play parties in New York, this event is designed to titillate and excite with live performances and demonstrations from some of the cities top dommes and erotic artists. 

During this Adventure you’ll get to meet some new members and mingle in a carefully curated collection of sexy singles, couples and groups. This is one of our most popular events so the guestlist normally hits above 50 members so expect plenty of opportunities to make a first impression. There will be spaces for non-play and coupled only spaces to explore.

Here are some things to expect at The NSFW PlayDate

What you can expect:

  • Meet new and classic members for connections and play.

  • Get aroused by live kink performances or maybe pick up a pad and engage in some erotic sketching. Each event we create new performances and exclusive experiences.

  • Feeling Frisky? Find places to sneak away for semi-private and more public romps.

  • Bartender with selection of sodas, juices and mixers. 

Some things to know. During this adventure, members and their guests will be encouraged to explore desires in a safe, judgement-free space. We are LGBTQ+ inclusive and practice enthusiastic consent. Dress code is black. Dress and play to your level of enjoyment and comfort. Participation is never required. BYOB is allowed and there’s a bar with mixers.

If you have any questions before the event reach out on TheNSFW.Club.


LOCATION

This adventure will take place in Bushwick, Brooklyn. Address is provided day of event to guests. You can also find or request on TheNSFW.Club.


PURCHASE PASSES

Access Pass
$99.00

Access for one to The NSFW Clubhouse. You must have an approved profile to purchase access passes. Apply here if you’re not a member.

Couples Pass
$169.00

Access for two to The NSFW Clubhouse. You must have an approved profile to purchase access passes. Apply here if you’re not a member.


CODE OF CONDUCT

Failure to comply with our Code of Conduct may result in removal or suspension. Privately report poor behavior by filling out an Incident Report. Our Code of Conduct was designed to keep our community safe and to prevent the violation of privacy of any members of The NSFW.

Speak up. We cannot keep our community safe if we are unaware of issues. Let us know.

We practice enthusiastic consent when engaging with new partners. Consent for any touch, conversations or digital interactions must be confirmed before engaging. This includes asking permission before sending direct messages on our private chats. If you do not want to receive requests for DMs, you have the option to make your account private on TheNSFW.Club.

Do not yuck on anyone’s yum.

Sex is varied and exploration takes many shapes.

Do not judge others for how they choose to express themselves sexually.

We embodying ideals inspired by love, compassion, sexual freedom, finding new states of happiness and self-awareness and acceptance. Those who are welcomed here are encouraged to explore, but everyone has the right to do so at their own pace. Never pressure anyone to engage in things they are not interested in.

We aim to create an environment where playfulness is encouraged, free from judgement and shame-based societal restrictions. We do not slut shame here. We don’t share revenge porn or images without the consent of those in it. Respect every members right to privacy.

Be kind to one another.

Hugs and signs of affection are encouraged. Think about each other and ways to make our community better. Our aim is to create a friendly environment where people feel welcomed and included.

We have zero tolerance for inappropriate behavior. This includes non-consensual contact, sending unsolicited direct messages or images, exhibiting harmful, divisive or hateful behavior, contributing to others feeling unsafe, or becoming overly intoxicated during live events. These behaviors run counter to our beliefs and only lead to division.

When handling disputes we ask members to come from a place of heal, not harm. We practice harm reduction in disputes between members and encourage those having issues in the membership to address it with the chief conspirator or council members.

The NSFW is a private community and we ask for disputes between the membership to be managed with harm reduction in mind. Do not share details about other members publicly. Do not reach out to other members on their personal social profiles unless they have given you approval to do so.

The NSFW is a diverse community. We are queer and BIPOC owned and operated. We condemn the practice of race based fetishization. Members who use hurtful words or who engage in practices that are anti-Black, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ageist, body shaming, whorephobic or xenophobic may be warned, removed or suspended from our community.

Members are expected to take rejection gracefully.

If someone isn’t interested in you or if you’re not interested in another person, please don’t take it as an opportunity to lash out or to respond in anger. Rejection is part of the process and shouldn’t be used to harm others.

As a member of The NSFW we are entrusting you with helping to contribute not only to an inviting and friendly atmosphere, but also to a place where we can explore radical self-expression safely.

Don’t be thirsty. Take a breath. Give people time to get to know our community and explore. It's okay to ignore and respond when you want or not at all. You do not owe anyone your time or attention. If you are asking to DM and get ignored, don't act out. Rejection is okay. Move on.

Be responsible and disclose your STD status with potential partners. Practicing enthusiastic consent means being honest about potential dangers you may be bringing to the bedroom. If you're receiving this information it's important to not respond negatively.

People have STDs and some are more common than others. We shouldn't stigmatize. If you're more active in the scene please get tested regularly. Know your status. Know your status. Know your status. Be honest.

Condom use must be discussed before engaging in sex with a new partner. Please verbalize whether or not the use of a condom is required. It’s okay to go raw, but ONLY if both partners consent. If a condom is requested and removed during sex please inform us so that we can take appropriate action.

 
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ALL SAYNTS DAY
Mar
13
to Mar 14

ALL SAYNTS DAY

 
 

MEMBERS-ONLY

You must be a vetted member of The NSFW to attend this event. You can apply for membership at TheNSFW.Club. Once approved you can purchase passes and connect to members on private chats before the party.


A SACRILIGIOUS PLAYDATE

Creatures of the night come together at this annual celebration and birthday of The NSFW founder, Daniel Saynt. Religious attire is required, but you won’t be turned away in black.

Come confess some sins and be redeemed by our Muses throughout the night. This is a judgment-free adult playground, a safe space for lovers, friends, and the curious to meet, flirt, and explore. Music by Chris Stath. Performances by Sweet Cinn and Humanette.


LOCATION

This adventure will take place in Bushwick, Brooklyn. Address is provided day of event to guests. You can also find or request on TheNSFW.Club.


PURCHASE PASSES

Access Pass
$99.00

Access for one to The NSFW Clubhouse. You must have an approved profile to purchase access passes. Apply here if you’re not a member.

Couples Pass
$169.00

Access for two to The NSFW Clubhouse. You must have an approved profile to purchase access passes. Apply here if you’re not a member.


CODE OF CONDUCT

Failure to comply with our Code of Conduct may result in removal or suspension. Privately report poor behavior by filling out an Incident Report. Our Code of Conduct was designed to keep our community safe and to prevent the violation of privacy of any members of The NSFW.

Speak up. We cannot keep our community safe if we are unaware of issues. Let us know.

We practice enthusiastic consent when engaging with new partners. Consent for any touch, conversations or digital interactions must be confirmed before engaging. This includes asking permission before sending direct messages on our private chats. If you do not want to receive requests for DMs, you have the option to make your account private on TheNSFW.Club.

Do not yuck on anyone’s yum.

Sex is varied and exploration takes many shapes.

Do not judge others for how they choose to express themselves sexually.

We embodying ideals inspired by love, compassion, sexual freedom, finding new states of happiness and self-awareness and acceptance. Those who are welcomed here are encouraged to explore, but everyone has the right to do so at their own pace. Never pressure anyone to engage in things they are not interested in.

We aim to create an environment where playfulness is encouraged, free from judgement and shame-based societal restrictions. We do not slut shame here. We don’t share revenge porn or images without the consent of those in it. Respect every members right to privacy.

Be kind to one another.

Hugs and signs of affection are encouraged. Think about each other and ways to make our community better. Our aim is to create a friendly environment where people feel welcomed and included.

We have zero tolerance for inappropriate behavior. This includes non-consensual contact, sending unsolicited direct messages or images, exhibiting harmful, divisive or hateful behavior, contributing to others feeling unsafe, or becoming overly intoxicated during live events. These behaviors run counter to our beliefs and only lead to division.

When handling disputes we ask members to come from a place of heal, not harm. We practice harm reduction in disputes between members and encourage those having issues in the membership to address it with the chief conspirator or council members.

The NSFW is a private community and we ask for disputes between the membership to be managed with harm reduction in mind. Do not share details about other members publicly. Do not reach out to other members on their personal social profiles unless they have given you approval to do so.

The NSFW is a diverse community. We are queer and BIPOC owned and operated. We condemn the practice of race based fetishization. Members who use hurtful words or who engage in practices that are anti-Black, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ageist, body shaming, whorephobic or xenophobic may be warned, removed or suspended from our community.

Members are expected to take rejection gracefully.

If someone isn’t interested in you or if you’re not interested in another person, please don’t take it as an opportunity to lash out or to respond in anger. Rejection is part of the process and shouldn’t be used to harm others.

As a member of The NSFW we are entrusting you with helping to contribute not only to an inviting and friendly atmosphere, but also to a place where we can explore radical self-expression safely.

Don’t be thirsty. Take a breath. Give people time to get to know our community and explore. It's okay to ignore and respond when you want or not at all. You do not owe anyone your time or attention. If you are asking to DM and get ignored, don't act out. Rejection is okay. Move on.

Be responsible and disclose your STD status with potential partners. Practicing enthusiastic consent means being honest about potential dangers you may be bringing to the bedroom. If you're receiving this information it's important to not respond negatively.

People have STDs and some are more common than others. We shouldn't stigmatize. If you're more active in the scene please get tested regularly. Know your status. Know your status. Know your status. Be honest.

Condom use must be discussed before engaging in sex with a new partner. Please verbalize whether or not the use of a condom is required. It’s okay to go raw, but ONLY if both partners consent. If a condom is requested and removed during sex please inform us so that we can take appropriate action.

 
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